Facebook oh Facebook !

Bila sebut je facebook semua orang senyum! Yelah mane2 yang biasa ngan fb ni taulah penangannya..ari2 nak berfb..nak komen kawan lah..nak cari kawan lah..nak upload gambarlah..nak bagi kawan lama tak jumpa tentang perkembangan dan gamba2 terkini..nak bagitau kat orang ari ni kite wat pe..feeling of the day dan pendekata banyak faedahnya fb ni..mana yang tak mengikuti fb ni tak ambik pot pon. Bila tanye kat diaorang.you ade fb tak ? dia orang tanye kite balik plak...eh facebook tu ape.?.malaslah nak cite ngan orang tak mengikuti perkembangan zaman ni..

Terlampau nak mengikuti arus zaman ni lah maka i pun buat facebook jugak..lepas aje set fb adalah pulak friend request..i punyelah surprise ade orang add kite..bangga gila..kite pun confirm request..best gak ni..Majoriti my exstudents la..tak sangka budak2 ni dah habis skola ingat dah lupa kat kita..eh eh dia orang ingat lagi plk kat teacher dia..Lama2 i punye friend sume my ex students..i love lah u all ni..Ada yang haru lagi dok tag nama kita pada gamba2 lama zaman diaorang skola..adalah terselit kat tengah2 tu gambo i..la mana depadapat gambo2 lama ni..malunye..zaman tu pinggang ada lagi..la ni..ampun!! pinggang pun dah lari ke mana tah..

Lama2 berfb ni i jadi addicted..i dah pandai venture find friends..mulalah tangan menaip nama2 college mate dulu2, nama room mate mase dok menyewa zaman anak dare, mulalah cari nama school mate mase sekolah rendah..last2 cari nama boyfriend zaman dahulu kala..jumpa gak..ha..ha..tak boleh jadi ni..abang sayang kat sebelah ni dah mula curiga..eh..bini aku ni wat pe ni..menghabiskan banyak masa depan laptop daripada memandang aku ni..penat aku bagi isyarat ajak tido dia wat2 tak nampak je..ni kes angau ke ni..Hati orang sebelah i dah mula mencurigai...

I dah mula perasan..dia dah mula sindir2 i..kebetulan pulak ada housemate yang dah 20 tahun tak jumpe dah mula add kie..seronoknya tak buley nak kabo..suh dia upload gambar nak tengok perkembangan dia..dia hantar gambo i pun hanto gambar..dia komen i..i pun komen balik..seronok gile..rupe2nye orang sebelah teman tido i ni pun dah nak naik gile..dia dah dok perhati i dari jauh..i senyum sorang2..i gelak sorang..ape kes bini aku ni..

Dia amik nya jam dinding yang tersangkut kat dinding tu dibawak nye depan i..la kenape plk ni.dia tunjuk jam dan tanye kol bape ni.. kol satu setengah i jawab..ye..pandai u tengok jam..dia jawab balik..sape plk tak reti tengok jam. dari tadika lagi i dah pandai tengok jam ape..dia tanya lagi..apa yang you dah masak utk tengahari ni. ? mak oii..awat cepat sangat kol satu setengah..tadi i baru dok tengok jam kol 10..mati lah i..lupa nak maasak tengahari..nasi dah masak cuma lauk je belom..i pon cari excuse..sorry darling...i ingat baru kol 10..tak sangka dah kol satu setengah..ampun..ampun..nasib baik laki i tak keluar api dari hidung dia ..kalau tak terus jadi naga...

Facebook ni memang haru..kadang2 merenggangkan hubungan kita anak beranak pun. anak i masa cuti semester lepas asyik dok berkurung dalam bilik dia. apelah yang dibuatnye..kite pon risau..rupa2nye fb punya hal lah. ..Yang ada dibawah i dah link ngan streamyx dan memang tak bleh kacau..itu mama dia punye..dia ada celcom broadband ..itu yang dia kena ke tingkat atas..lebih clear signal nye..jadi dia di atas ..i di bawah..mana abang sayang i tak marah..dia tak de kawan nak berborak..dua2 wanita kesayangannya dah ada darling baru..fb namanya..itu yang buat dia bengkak hati...ha..ha..

So..sempena 2010 ni i dah ada resolusi baru..macam azam jugaklah..nak kurangkan berfb ni dan menumpukan lebih perhatian pada i punya pillow mate ni..kesian kat dia..kami dua orang dah nak masuk zone warga emas..berikan lah perhatian lebih sedikit pada pasangan kita.Nak masuk kelas mengaji Quran same2, nak berjogging kat Botanic same2,nak memandang dia lebih sikit lah..tapi satu aje halangan..i kesian kat laptop i yang ada depan mata ni..mampukah i menahan godaan fb bila i tengok ada 20 notification nya..tergerak gak sape yang comment i punya wall ni...entahlah.....jangan resolusi terus jadi resolusi tahun berikutnya...dan..dan..my hubby akan beli jam dinding yang lebih besar...entahlah...

nak raye lagi lah...

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kami sambut raye tahun ni dengan sambutan yang ala kadar aje..anak i tengah exam di college so tak dapat lah dia nak membantu i untuk urusan di dapur..nasib badan. till the last day, thursday dia masih ada kelas lagi. Malam raye kami ke USJ ambil dia kol 8.00 malam. nampaknya my hubby yang terpaksa tolong masak ..nasib baik dia ok. kena blend serai and kacang tuk wat kuah kacang..kesian gak kat dia..tp nak buat camne dah yang tinggal kami dua orang je..akhirnya menjadik jugak macam mak punya kuah kacang..salute lah tok my hubby..

orang sebelah rumah plak buat open house,,jadi kami tumpang aje sekaki ..dapatlah rendang siat and soto..bestlah auntie..tahun depan wat lagi ok..then apelagi..balik kampong time..mak buat macam-macam..ade ketupat..kuih lopez de squera..kueh baulu kemboja..macam2 lah..apelagi masa untuk menjamu selera .ha ..thengs mak..

kol 12 malam kami kene balik umah semula..kerana..kerana..terlupa nak raye umah mak mertua..he..he..maafkan i sayang..lupa mak u pun ada rumah gakk..

SALAM AIDIL ADHA

SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDIL ADHA UNTUK SEMUA SAHABAT HANDAI DAN KELUARGA TERDEKAT . TAHUN INI KAMI BERAYA DI CASA DEMAIRA.

home sweet home !!

alhamdullillah semuanya telah selesai. Syukur pada Allah yang telah memurahkan rezeki kami untuk memiliki rumah ini.





pandangan hadapan rumah kami

kenangan 2...house renovation..

Malacca..here I come !

Splendid..that's the exact word to describe our holiday for this year..Malacca was an amazing and fantastic destination for a holiday. It was unexpectedly that Malacca has developed a lot. From juz a monotonous A Famosa or Stadhuys building , we have so many places actually to go. Menara Taming Sari, Malacca River Cruise, Eye On Malaysia, Jonker Walk, London Bus, Quayside seafood, Trishaw Ride, Dataran pahlawan and sooooo many places. Not to mention the famous asam pedas mak mah. My hubby was really enjoyed the asam pedas mak mah until he doze up soundly at the hotel..kenyang betul ..i tell you it cost us only RM 25.00 for three of us with ulam dauntenggek burung + asam pedas ikan cencaru + pucuk ubi + ikan keli masak minang + lai chee kang + giant sotong masak sambal...it make my mouth watering ! tak percaya..go to malacca now !

Dato Ali Rustam had turn Malacca into little Venice when we venture the city on the river cruise. The fare is only RM10.00 for a person and the scenery was fantastic. We took the ride after the maghrib prayer and there were a lot of people still waiting at the jetty. We watched the kampung Morten from the cruise and the 45 minutes ride seemed endless..I really enjoyed the tour.

After the river cruise we feel hungry and we ate the seafood at the quayside seafood and okay lah..but the price was quite expensive! RM 30.00 for mee singapore + coconut drink +....

Then come the Jonker walk. ..actually it just like the petaling street in kl. The thing is all the hawkers were very nice and friendly and we can haggle for the lowest price if u are smart enough. The price was really cheap compared to the gallery price. We went twice since my daughter and I were really crazy for shopping. Pity my husband..waiting for us like crazy and just to ambik hati i belikan dia rayban ciplak..dia tak pakai pun!

The hotel Sri Costa was located right in the middle of Malacca town so we just walk to reach our destination. Easy parking and save budget lagi. The only place that we need to drive is Eye on Malaysia. I tell you I really panic. I don't want to join my daughter and my hubby..they both FORCE me to join them. I ended up wearing my daughter's waferer (cermin mata hitam )and close my eyes throughout the ride. Funny thing i cannot see the view..macam-macam rasa ada..sumpah i tak nak naik lagi !

Menara Taming Sari lagi satu pulak..Mati I..Dah lah naik atas kemudian dipusing-pusing nya kita kat atas.I sempatlah minta ampun and maaf pada my hubby sebelum naik tu. nak tergelak pun ade. My daughter mintak halalkan hutang-hutang dia pada i . Peluang lah nak tambah hutang baru..he..he..anyway i dah halalkan hutang-hutang nya tu..pandai dia amik peluang...time nak naik taming sari..

London bus pun ok..dengan RM5.00 kita berpeluang tour bandar Malacca..Kami naik masa tak ramai orang hanya lima orang je..My daughter sempat baring dalam bas tu ..he..he macam kami chartered satu bas lak..VIP treat lah konon. Dataran Pahlawan lagilah best. Anak I tak lepas peluang g Roxy tapi takbeli ape pun..sume dia dah ada ..lagipun baru habis shopping raya..mana nak cekau duit ye.Ade jugak MNG dan ESPRIT..tapi cepat I cubit dia..I nampak GULATI'S melambai-lambai I . Tapi dia orang cerdik. My hubby buat-buat sakit perut konon gastrik datang and my daughter lagi pandai buat drama swasta..suruh i tengok kaki dia yang dah melecet tu..nasib badan..

Oklah..banyak nye promote Malacca.Ali Rustam tak nak bagi commisyen ke ? tahniah untuk Malacca..

So little meant so much

The art of teaching is the art of assisting discovery!

The weekend is the time that me and my hubby waiting for. Aina finished her class on Thursday afternoon and she will be with us for three days. wow..mesti best punye. She will have lots and lots of fantastic stories for us ..

As usual life goes as what we expected it to be..Aina came back and told us so many stories about her classmates, her lectures , her room , her frenzs and finally her assignments.Mak ooi..so fast with the assignment and this time she need to present it in front of the class. Knowing Aina for almost eighteen years (of course I am her mom what ..) she used to be very timid, shy and reserved type . This will be her first obstacle.why lah i ask her to join mass comm ..pity her. She always complained to me (ten times may be ...) this is your course not me.. you always telling me that this is your dream course .. That is a true statement. Mass Comm. used to be my dream course since I used to be an outgoing person, I like adventurous life and it happen that my bf pun asking for the same course in ITM.. (dulu-dulu punye cerite..Kalau hubby i tau ...mati i ) .Pity for Aina. But she seems enjoy the course during the orientation week..after the orientation she never grumbled about the course.

So, over the weekend we start hunting for information..The title is CULTURE..she need to choose one sub culture and how the culture has influenced the society and way of life of the generation.. i promised her that i will help her since she had no experience in such topic especially to write the thesis statement, the etymology, the background..i told her not to worry since her mum will used all her varsity skills and experience to lead her to present a good piece of assignment. Luckily I never fail to pay my streamyx bill and the net was available at our home.

First step...do the google search...Fantastic..the information was there. She need to read all and decides which culture that she confident in presenting it. As her mom cum her teacher cum her good friend,I must give her advice.. right! so here comes me.. We have a lot of sub-culture and she need to choose one..one that she familiar with..one that she confident when the lecturer asks her to tell the class about her findings, one that can throw away her shyness of being a reserved type..and the most important is one that she can give confidence to herself.Finally she decided to choose HIP HOP..ha ha something new to me but not for her generation.Thanx to google again ..what can we do without you ..Luckily there is a lot of information on hip hop and i can see her smiling ..the info was superb....

As a mother i feel happy that at least i manage to help her..even though its just a small contribution.I can see her.. searching and hunting through the net until 4.00 p.m and how i wish i can watch her presentation to give her some moral support but i believe my little Aina will get through it well because she got my guts in herself.She got all the courage from us..

Sending her back to the condo was a little touching for me. I can see her crying and deep in my heart i keep on telling her that she will go on successfully ! For me that is the only contribution that a mum can do and I believe all mums will do the same to help their loves one. On my way home i received an sms from her..
MUM.YOU ARE THE GREATEST MOTHER IN THE WORLD..my tears running ...

So little meant so much !

Bravo for my little darling!

My daughter had just enrolled at segi collegge usj two weeks ago. It was the first time that we were far apart for quite a long time. For my hubby and me ,she was so precious since she was our only child . She was the gift from Allah to our marriage because i had been undergone two miscarriages after she was born . So she was our seeds of love, our happiness, our hope .. She was very close to both of us.

It was hard for me to accept the fact that she was not staying with us now. She leads her own life with her mass comm collegues, she had dinner with her frenzs, she need to prepare her own breakfast at her condo. hunting for lunch at the nearby mc d and so and so and so..Believe me.. for those who has only one child and never been apart for a long time with their little darling this will be the toughest moment in their life. i am not trying to deny the fact..really. i just want to share more moments with her..with her giggling, shouting, teasing her..i always treat her as my best friend.we always share our secret about man in our life (none other than my hubby)..i always appointed her as my private eye (PI) if i want to know about my husband's secret..

my daughter used to be my fashion police..this is not suit with you mum..this baju kurung is very dull in colour ..you better wear this one and not that one..bla..bla..so many sharing of happy moments between us because we are sharing the same hobby , reading. She will be the first to grab my GLAM magazine , she reminds me if i miss the issue of the month, she enlightens my day if i have some grumblings on her father and most important thing is she is my loyal comrade to go shopping. We will spend hours and hours at the mall..

Now, lonelines is everywhere. my hubby said it's the time to let her go. Let her has experience with her new life..with girlfriends (not bf ye darling..), with new surrounding rather than 'bawah ketiak mama'..Whenever i try to let some fresh air into her room, i barely able to breath... not because of the pollution but because of her smells was everywhere..i can see her running and trying to 'sergah' me from behind the door, pretending to sleep to let me tickle her belly,calling the father to help her as if i am trying to carry her to the bathroom....oh what a jolly good moments..

For my daughter, NUR AINA ATHIRA, i really hope that you can lead a happy life there. May you have the spirits like your mum, the guts like your ayah and the attitude like us both. Do your best to survive in a new environment and i want u to know that mama and ayah will always be there to help you to face all the difficulties and overcome all the obstacles and may your dreams to be a journalist will be granted by Allah ! inshaallah
BRAVO FOR MY LITTLE DARLING !

Remember this line

STANDING BY ME

The great thing in this world is not so much where we are ; but in what direction we are moving.

thanx to my hubby and my little darling for supporting me on my way to be a good teacher.